Scripture: Genesis 50:20
“As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good...”
There comes a moment in the grief journey when your pain begins to shift—not disappear, but transform. The wound becomes a well. The scar becomes a signpost. You begin to realize that your sorrow, though deeply personal, has shaped you into someone who can sit with the hurting, speak with tenderness, and carry light into dark places.
Joseph’s words in Genesis 50:20 were spoken after betrayal, loss, and years of suffering. Yet somehow, he saw redemption. Not because the pain was good, but because God refused to let it be wasted.
You, too, are being shaped—not in spite of your grief, but through it. This doesn’t mean your loss was necessary. It means that when you are ready, your compassion will carry a weight that others trust.
Your presence will be healing. Your story will matter.
This is what it means to be a wounded healer. Not whole in the world’s eyes, but holy in the hands of God. Your wound can become a wellspring of empathy. Your story can become shelter for someone else. You become a wounded healer, like Jesus—bearing scars that shine with compassion.
God doesn’t waste anything. Not even this.
Practice for Today
Reach out to someone who’s grieving. Share a word, a story, or a moment of presence. Let your wound offer warmth.
Journaling Prompt
How might my pain help someone else feel less alone? What would it look like to be a wounded healer?
Closing Blessing
Feel your scarred places glow with grace.
You are not just surviving—
you are becoming a vessel of healing.
There is strength rising from your story.
Allow the God who created you recreate you into
someone who carries healing through your presence.
The light that reached you now flows through you.
Pray as You Go
Inhale: I have been wounded…
Exhale: …and now I carry healing.
I pray that I can be a wounded healer for others suffering loss.
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