Scripture: Joshua 4:6-7
“That this may be a sign among you... when your children ask “What do you mean by these stones?”... then you shall tell them...”
When the Israelites crossed the Jordan River, God told them to gather stones—not for practicality, but for memory. Each stone was a marker of where they had been, what they had survived, and how God had brought them through. Grief invites us to do the same: to carry memory not as a weight of sorrow, but as a sacred witness to love that endures.
You don’t have to “move on” in the way others might expect. You can move forward with the memory. You can carry it gently, intentionally, reverently. Not clinging to the past but letting the past shape who you are becoming.
Your loved one’s life matters. Their story continues—in how you live, in who you are, in the way love shaped you. Remembering is not living in the past. It is anchoring yourself in the truth that love never truly dies.
The Israelites continued their journey after building the memorial, but they always remembered where they had been. Continue to tell the stories and bless the memories. Let them live in you—not as chains, but as markers of love that shaped your soul.
Practice for Today
Choose one object, photo, or phrase that reminds you of what was lost. Set it apart as a “memory stone” of love, not pain.
Journaling Prompt
What memory do I want to carry forward with intention? What makes it sacred?
Closing Blessing
Transform the memory of your loss from burden to blessing.
Know that love grows in the journey forward.
What you remember in love will never truly be lost.
You are the living memorial of what mattered most.
Pray as You Go
Inhale: I carry memory…
Exhale: …with honor and love.